India has got its Independence from the British in the year 1947, you all know that. What you didn`t know was that: Only Indian Men got that, Indian Women; atleast most of them did not get complete Independence or Freedom!
I am still disturbed by the fact that World`s most beautiful Women live under the mercy and sometimes wimps and fancies of so called "superior beings". One more recent survey also revealed that Indian Women are most stressed; god, it is smile which we should see on these beautiful faces not frowns. Sadly, only the latter is happening in the real world.
You would want to know why I am writing all this: A College pass out, a girl who had dreams, a lady who could`ve been gone to become and achieved whatever she wanted to was killed in broad daylight in a bus stop by none other than her ex-fiancée. Barbarism would be too subtle to term this act. I was shocked and disgusted by reading the above incident; a murder in broad daylight in a bus stop - even a butcher would not do that!
The above incident disturbed me, I couldn`t let it go calling it "news". I am not going to put a black cloak on with a magnifying glass in my hands and start investigating. I want to address a basic few issues that have grown with us with time - Men forcing their views on Women, not only views, choices, what to, what not to and at times even food!
Basic violation of Human rights are at times classified as tussle between a couple and under that cover more than just a few atrocities happen - in a word: Unpardonable!
I remember my mother telling me, Men and Women are just the same deep down; just that Women think twice, men don`t think at all!. My point is not to offend Men; my point was to demonstrate that we are wired differently and thus the differences!
Imagine what this world would look like without Women- Men would be at the edges of their chair waiting for a fight, Smelly Socks, Dresses made out of two colours: Black and White, No Hindi Movies, No Romantic Heroes and importantly - No Poets or Poems!
I remember hearing about women who tolerate basic violation of Human rights just because they are women. I beg to differ on these views, fight for your rights for you deserve them. You don`t have to put with anything you don`t want to just because your gender is female, no law or constitution of the country says that!
To the Men all around, Machoism is not in hitting your lady; it is from saving any one from doing so. You are physically strong than your female counterpart, that doesn`t mean you should overpower her choices and views. She is supposed to be treated gentlemanish way, make her smile, treat her warmly… For even woman deserves to be treated like a princess!
I know I will get a lot of criticism for this, but all I would want the next generation boys/guys/dudes (whatever you call yourself) to treat all women with equal respect and give them their freedom back. Be a man, do the right thing!
You are not a guy if you display your physical strength against a weaker being... So... Who are you?
I am still disturbed by the fact that World`s most beautiful Women live under the mercy and sometimes wimps and fancies of so called "superior beings". One more recent survey also revealed that Indian Women are most stressed; god, it is smile which we should see on these beautiful faces not frowns. Sadly, only the latter is happening in the real world.
You would want to know why I am writing all this: A College pass out, a girl who had dreams, a lady who could`ve been gone to become and achieved whatever she wanted to was killed in broad daylight in a bus stop by none other than her ex-fiancée. Barbarism would be too subtle to term this act. I was shocked and disgusted by reading the above incident; a murder in broad daylight in a bus stop - even a butcher would not do that!
The above incident disturbed me, I couldn`t let it go calling it "news". I am not going to put a black cloak on with a magnifying glass in my hands and start investigating. I want to address a basic few issues that have grown with us with time - Men forcing their views on Women, not only views, choices, what to, what not to and at times even food!
Basic violation of Human rights are at times classified as tussle between a couple and under that cover more than just a few atrocities happen - in a word: Unpardonable!
I remember my mother telling me, Men and Women are just the same deep down; just that Women think twice, men don`t think at all!. My point is not to offend Men; my point was to demonstrate that we are wired differently and thus the differences!
Imagine what this world would look like without Women- Men would be at the edges of their chair waiting for a fight, Smelly Socks, Dresses made out of two colours: Black and White, No Hindi Movies, No Romantic Heroes and importantly - No Poets or Poems!
I remember hearing about women who tolerate basic violation of Human rights just because they are women. I beg to differ on these views, fight for your rights for you deserve them. You don`t have to put with anything you don`t want to just because your gender is female, no law or constitution of the country says that!
To the Men all around, Machoism is not in hitting your lady; it is from saving any one from doing so. You are physically strong than your female counterpart, that doesn`t mean you should overpower her choices and views. She is supposed to be treated gentlemanish way, make her smile, treat her warmly… For even woman deserves to be treated like a princess!
I know I will get a lot of criticism for this, but all I would want the next generation boys/guys/dudes (whatever you call yourself) to treat all women with equal respect and give them their freedom back. Be a man, do the right thing!
You are not a guy if you display your physical strength against a weaker being... So... Who are you?
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